I forgot tell you all something.
The Teen™ who threw Sebastian last January and broke his arm, served his almost year.
He was supposed to serve a full year and then be on probation for 3 years.
He is out.
Back living at his moms.
Right around the fucking corner.
We have already had a kid or 2 tell us how pissed off he is at us for making him go to jail.
Excuse me?
Asshole teen, it was not us who put your ass in jail. It was YOU.
He (17) threw my son and broke his arm and Sebastian will be needing surgery later in life to correct the rotation problems from where it was broken.
I swear on my life that if that shithead who is now 18 and a half, touches my son or sons, I will break his fucking arm.
And his leg.
And his face.
Little fuck does not want to come near my property or my kids.
I don't care how well behaved he was in jail and got out early.
His mom is still being a bitch and gives us the look of death whenever she sees us.
The younger brother goes to school with Mark and practically rubbed it in Marks face that his brother was out.
I'll be rubbing faces in the pavement if that shithead touches my kids.
Original entry from 1-13-03 in the extended entry.
1-13-03
I just got home after 32 hours in
the er and hospital.
A 17 year old boy broke Sebastian's arm Sunday afternoon around 4:15.(edited
because I fucked up the time. Everything happened so fast, sorry)
He picked Sebastian up and lifted him over his head and threw him to the
concrete driveway.
He has to go on Wednesday to see an orthopedic pediatric specialist who will
decide whether or not to perform surgery or try to cast it.
On a scale of 1-5, 1 being a fracture and 5 being the bone protruding from his
arm, Sebastian is a 4. He may need to have steel rods placed in there.
The kids, Mark, Sebastian and Johnathan and Brandon were playing in Brandon's
front yard playing tag when Sebastian touched Brandon's older brothers car. He
touched it, not scratched it or dented but touched and the kid flew him like a
ragdoll to the ground.
I have had to get a lawyer to pursue medical expenses. The police took
statements from all the kids and arrested and then released the boy to his
parents because by state law, they can only hold a minor for 6 hours.
Sebastian is home with me in an immobilizer brace until Wednesday where we will
have to go to All Children's Hospital to see the surgeon.
I am going to try and scan his xray so that you can all see what this fucking
prick did to my son.
Later days.
Kat spoke @ 10:07:10pm
Court date entry
5/16/2003
We just got back from court.
The teen was sentenced to 1 year and then on commitment until he is 22.
If he screws up in jail, he will have to stay for 2 years.
When he gets out, if he screws up even once, he will be back in jail until his
22nd birthday.
His entire family got to speak on his behalf and tell the judge how sorry they
are for this terrible accident. Then the teen spoke about how sorry he was for
the accident.
The defense attorney spoke about how we have no reason to fear him and that he
is not a threat to society.
Then the state attorney spoke and she said that it was proven in court before
this very judge that this was not an accident and that the teen was convicted of
1st degree felony child abuse and should be punished as such.
The teen and his family begged the judge not to send him away. His family wept,
his girlfriend wept. It had no affect on the judge at all.
He said apologies were not accepted. It didn’t matter to him if the teen was
sorry or not. He said that the teen still had not accepted responsibility for
his actions that day and that is why he is sending this message.
The judge asked me if I had anything to say and I told him that I did not
believe that the teen was sorry. He had an opportunity that day to apologize
before we left for the ER and before the hospital called the police to have him
arrested. It has been exactly 5 months 1 day since this happened. The only time
that he apologized in this whole time was last Tuesday and I told the judge that
he mouthed those words to me only because he didn’t want to be punished, in my
opinion. I told him that I didn’t believe the teen was sorry nor that the family
is sorry.
The judge after sentencing the teen ordered the entire family to stay away from
my family and everyone in my home including ex-roommate.
The mother has been intentionally going to the store ex-roommate works at and going
through her line to checkout and smirking. 3-4 times in the last week.
A state corrections officer walked us out of the building because his mother was
furious at us.
We then went and ate because the kids were starving, ex-roommate’s treat and then
caught the bus home.Some stinky girl wearing way too much vanilla perfume got on
and we all nearly died. I had to open the windows because I couldn’t breathe.
Some smart mouthed teen told her to spritz not bathe in it…lolWe stopped at
Pete’s store on the way home for some water and a soda because it was so hot out
today.
We got home and in my mailbox were the movies I won yesterday. How cool!
It is Spirited Away, The castle in the sky and Kikis delivery service.
The kids are watching Spirited away right now.
It has been a long day and this is almost over.
We just have to go to the restitution hearing now. The judge ordered that the
parents are financially responsible because the teen is now incarcerated. They
have to pay all the medical bills that we have already and ongoing and pain and
suffering.
I am grateful to state attorney Karen F. and Mr. R., the Juvenile justice guy
and Judge M.
I will catch up with everyone else in a little while. Right now, I need to
change (hot and sweaty) and take my pills. I am in agony.
Later.
Posted by Kat @ 6:16 pm in Court
Comments
Aw, sorry for my 'comment-roll' here (been replying to just about EVERYTHING I missed this weekend), but I have to say something about this, too!
Kat, please be careful! I *know* you're fuming, and you have every right to defend your kids, and actually I'm fuming too at the moment after reading this...
But... Listen, I know you are like a lioness defending her cubs when they touch your sons, and because of this you might actually seriously hurt that dude, because 'motherly-love' gives double strenght.
And with your *luck*, you might actually be the one to end up in jail, then. Argl! I know it's practically impossible, but try to ignore them. people like that thrive on 'attention', and 'thinking' that they've succesfully intimidated someone. Horrible but true.
*big smooches*
Posted by: Julie! | March 22, 2004 2:59 PM
I gotta agree with Julie.. can you call one of the detectives that were involved and talk to him? Maybe he can help you... Be careful.. you and the boys..
Posted by: Kate | March 22, 2004 3:01 PM
I know. And you're right, I'm just mad. This is partly the reason I was cranky all weekend. I found out about him on friday and have been in stress mode since.
Posted by: kat | March 22, 2004 3:01 PM
I'm being super careful. The boys have to stay together again when going out to play. They need to come home if they see him anywhere. That sucks for them but I don't trust this kid.
Posted by: kat | March 22, 2004 3:03 PM
I'll come down there and help you!
But I would hope that he'd lay low and steer clear, regardless of how pissed he is. If it were me, I would not want to get thrown back in the slammer, no matter how pissed I was (even if it's at the WRONG people).
Posted by: kim | March 22, 2004 3:09 PM
LOL....of course my viewpoint isn't a popular one, and Julie and Kate are absolutely correct. But I'd be pissed enough to hurt the kid too if he touched one of them. By all means, let the detective and any caseworkers associated with the case know what's going on. If they start going out of their way to intimidate you, you could probably bust them for harrassment.
Posted by: kim | March 22, 2004 3:11 PM
Well, I am hoping that these kids who are talking big, are doing just that. I hope he has learned his lesson and stays away. But I swear, if he comes on my property, I have a 2x4 behind the front door and he will be wearing it up his ass.
Posted by: kat | March 22, 2004 3:11 PM
It may not be popular, but it's the same view I have. :)
Posted by: kat | March 22, 2004 3:12 PM
OMG that is just horrible! I would see, if possible, about getting a restraining order against him just to be on the safe side. Just a damn shame that he didn't even serve his full year! And I really hope that Sebastian won't have too many problems with his arm yrs. down the road!
Posted by: Kelly | March 22, 2004 3:29 PM
When I get back I'll pin him down and you can beat the shit out of him. And then we will find his Mom.
I am sorry that your going through this.
(((HUGS)))
I love ya!
Posted by: Heidi | March 22, 2004 4:44 PM
First thing I thought was "she-wolf with cubs" but then Julie! nailed the right term first - "lioness." I fully appreciate your protective feelings. Somehow, I don't think that kid will try anything... if his mother has a grain of sense in her head, she will warn him to stay away from your kids. Then again -- grains of sense are sometimes hard to find.
I think a restraining order might be a good idea, I don't know the legality of it at this point since the kid hasn't approached or threatened your boy... but maybe there's such a thing as a preventive restraining order? Look into it.
Posted by: Terry | March 22, 2004 4:59 PM
Heidi...lol I can just see the 2 of us chasing his mom down the street. I don't think she'd fuck with us but Kyle is a different story.
Hey! I can say his name now! He's fucking 18 and now I can say his name...Yay! Little fucking prick.
Posted by: kat | March 22, 2004 5:07 PM
Kelly, I am going to call the DA about it and see what she thinks I should do.
Sebastians arm has rotation issues. If you take your arm and rotate it all the way around, you should have no problems. His pops and cannot go above his head. He can't put his arm behind his back all the way. Etc etc etc. There are several problems with it.
They told me that if he dreamed about being a sports player, to talk him out of it and convince him a desk job, like lawyer or teacher, would be better. :(
Posted by: kat | March 22, 2004 5:15 PM
Terry, his mom is pyscho. She would follow me down the street taking pictures of me and the boys after he went to jail. She is just as dangerous as he is. I will have to look into a preventive restraining order. See if there is such a thing.
Posted by: kat | March 22, 2004 5:27 PM
Is it harassment for the kid to be gloating to Mark that the kid is out early? It's caused you all to be scared, that is emotional abuse. You're still victims then, and that's BS.
Also, maybe you should take your camera around with you, and if she starts snapping pics, or the boy shows up, you can grab a picture? I don't know what you should do really, I just know I'm afraid for you and the boys. ((kat))
Posted by: karri | March 22, 2004 9:46 PM
I pretty much have my camera with me all the time since this all started last year. I'm ready for her this time.
I don't know what can be done either but I'm going to call a few places and see what is up and what to do in the chance that any of his family comes in contact with us.
Posted by: kat | March 22, 2004 10:05 PM
are you able to file for a PPO (personal protection order) I would think given the history you would have enough grounds for one.
sending you all the best. ;)
Posted by: Diane | March 22, 2004 10:13 PM
I don't have anything to add to the above except...THIS SUCKS! Little Future Felon of America(tm) will no doubt be committing other crimes very soon. Please be careful!
{{{hugs!}}}
Posted by: Christine | March 22, 2004 10:13 PM
Well, now that he is 18, legally an adult, I can tell you his other crimes. He threatened to blow up his teacher. Had a backpack full of explosives at school. Has been arrested several times for drug possesion. Too bad it took him hurting MY child to get him locked up for even the amount of time that he did. Little bastard.
Posted by: kat | March 22, 2004 10:23 PM
I am going to call about this tomorrow and see what can be done. It's frustrating that he is out. I was kind of hoping he would fuck up while in there and have to stay until he was 22. :(
Posted by: kat | March 22, 2004 10:25 PM
Oh my goodness!!!!!!!!
I have never heard of anything so senseless and mean!
That boy and his family better not come anywhere NEAR you guys or I'll be on the next flight to join the pose and kick some butt!!!!!!
Posted by: squishybear | March 23, 2004 10:06 AM
I really hope he has learned a lesson and the kids who were talking are bullshitting. The DA can't do anything until he comes near us. He hasn't threatened us, the other kids said he did so until he says something or does something, they have to err that he is following his probabtion.
Posted by: kat | March 23, 2004 11:47 AM