Well, that was fun.
I mean that too.
But yes, I did ban that ip.
I am not going to sit around day after day and defend myself to his latest girlfriend all the time.
They all wake up eventually.
I was up late, I'm tired and I have a docs appointment this afternoon.
Later days.




Comments
*BIG HUGS*
Posted by: Kirsi | April 13, 2004 7:42 AM
Thanks Kirsi, I am fine really. Fighting with the new naive girlfriends gets my juices flowing. They come and attack me all high and mighty in a few years time, they tell someone how right I was. Have a good day girl.
Posted by: Kat | April 13, 2004 7:44 AM
Let us know what's going on with your back sweetie... {{{hugs}}}
Posted by: Kate | April 13, 2004 8:31 AM
I really hope your appointment goes well. :)
I just read through all the posts, and I just want to tell you that you are a strong person. A good person. And, thank goodness the boys have you. My heart aches for them, but again, at least they've got you. (((Kat)))
Posted by: Karri | April 13, 2004 8:44 AM
Will do. This is just a check up with the primary care doc. :)
Posted by: Kat | April 13, 2004 8:54 AM
Thanks Karri. I really did enjoy that though. It's been 3 years since he's had the balls to argue with me about being dad of the year. And the new chick, holy cow. Run girl run!! Don't fucking get pregnant Michelle! Run for your life!!!....lol
Posted by: Kat | April 13, 2004 9:01 AM
Kat, I'm sorry you're going through all this crap on your weblog. I'm sure it's bad enough to have to deal with him in the "real world" but for him and his friends to come online and try to trash you on your own website is childish. I had to ban a couple of people myself who tried to start stuff on mine. *hugs* I hope all goes well with your appointment today. Take Care of yourself.
Posted by: Bobbi | April 13, 2004 9:02 AM
Thanks Bobbi. I banned her, Michelle, because she is young, 21, in a fog of wonder over the tattoos and the band and the charm. She would just keep defending him all the time until she wakes up and sees the number of kids he has fathered, gets an STD or catches him red handed cheating on her. Just because she is a model, does not mean he won't fuck around on her. He has been with many beautiful women and has fucked them all over. I just don't have the time or patience to try and teach her the truth. She will learn it soon enough on her own.
Posted by: Kat | April 13, 2004 9:06 AM
Does this mean there will be no more moron mail? That was getting funny, though I know the whole situation is anything but.
I hope your doc appointment goes well. Mine is hurting right now, I think it's the tropical temperatures from last week along with the freezing temps this week.
Have a good day!
Posted by: kim | April 13, 2004 9:18 AM
I could unblock them but really, these new girlfriends, I know all too well how they behave. They act like he is a god and they defend him and they really truly believe he loves his kids and them. They will come here day after day and call me names and insult me and call me a bitch for taking the kids to FLA instead of leaving them there 8 blocks away from their own dad to be ignored. At least he can blame the distance on me but lack of communication is all him.
They will call myself, Barb and Dia and any other woman he has been with, sluts and whores and say we are lousy mothers.
Then, they will get pregnant. He will cheat on them. He will leave them.
Then and only then, will they recall the words they said to me and the other moms and they cry and beg for forgiveness and ask how we can force him to pay his child support if we all fight hm together.
I could argue with her, I could argue with him and maybe I will lift the ban after I make a very important post. Something he hangs over my head as blackmail for years. He uses the same old tired line to try and make me shut up.
I am not afraid of the truth, my past or him. But I am going to say it. Not him. It is my past.
Posted by: Kat | April 13, 2004 9:25 AM
I'm sorry you're having to go through all this needless stuff. (((((Hugs)))))) Hope today goes well!
Posted by: Sue | April 13, 2004 9:47 AM
Good move; their shit is the last thing you need to deal with.
Posted by: kim | April 13, 2004 1:32 PM
Way to go Kat. Don't even listen to them. If they can even be friends with and support the exb*stard, knowing he's abandoned his children, then they don't have any taste in friends.
*hugs*
Posted by: Karen | April 13, 2004 2:37 PM
I know karen. He just threatened me with a lawsuit for slander. I told him to go ahead.
Posted by: Kat | April 13, 2004 3:14 PM
It's actually amusing Kim. I'm finding the whole threat of a lawsuit hysterical.
Posted by: Kat | April 13, 2004 3:15 PM
Today went as it always does. No work. No lifting. No seated work. See a surgeon ASAP.
And this crap, I can deal with.
Posted by: Kat | April 13, 2004 3:19 PM
Ow, I thought about this all day :-/
He hasn't called Sebastian yet, eh?
Give your boys a hug from me, and yourself one, too! ((((Kat)))
Posted by: Julie! | April 13, 2004 4:06 PM
Nope, no phone call. He sent an email saying that his kids hate him when I had clearly said that Sebastian did not hate him and wanted to talk to his dad. :(
Posted by: Kat | April 13, 2004 4:31 PM
Oy! Kat. I'm sorry that your ex and his girlfriend are giving you shit. She'll take off the rose colored glasses soon.
Posted by: sporty | April 13, 2004 9:09 PM
It's all good. I am not worried about it. He's talking out his ass as usual. And if he does try to sue me, well, we will see who gets the last laugh.
As for her, she's young, stupid and awe struck over a guy with tats who thinks he's a rock god.
Posted by: Kat | April 13, 2004 9:25 PM