Hi pot! Meet kettle!
If you can say one thing to several people and not to the people whom it should be directed, you cannot then turn around and cry foul when your words come back and bite you in the ass.
That is being a hypocrite.
If you talk about someone behind their back and it gets back to them, really, who do you have to blame when that person finds out and acts upon that information?
Yourself and only yourself.
You can stand as high on any righteous mountain you so feel justified in standing on but the truth is, you got back what you put out.
You must learn to deal with the consequences of your own big mouth.
EDIT* I so love conversational terrorism man.
I really do.
I love how people can play that game and call themselves "good".
I am finding myself again and with it, I am finding how much I despise people like this.
Can you act like a child a bit more? God I hope so cuz it's truly funny to watch you try and belittle me again and I'm not playing your game this time.
Hahahaha!
Comments
AMEN Sister (in a secular way that is... lol)
Posted by: Anne | October 2, 2005 3:14 PM
hahah in a secular way! Oh you just made me giggle.
See, I got talked about and so I did it back. Tit for tat, and eye for an eye and now that person is crying foul.
What the fuck ever. You shouldn't say shit if you don't like how it comes back. It's that fucking simple ya know?
Really, if you have the nerve to say shit about people, why can't they do it to you?
The first time this person did it to me, I confronted him on that information right away. hey, what the fuck is this shit I'm hearing, and then he beat his way around it with oh it's all just gossip. But then he did it again and instead of confronting, I played his game and he's not liking it too much at all so now, he's nitpicking the shit out of everything I do like a fucking child.
Grow the fuck up and act your age asshole.
Confront me. Like a man.
Posted by: kat | October 2, 2005 3:41 PM
Truer words could not be uttered...
If you can't stand the heat... get outta MY kitchen! LOL!
You can't eat shit, don't deal it! I agree with you 110%.
I'd prefer people just not gossip. I try, very hard, not to be a gossip. (Hardest part is not participating in a sea of gossips or deciding if staying silent is as bad as actively participating.)
Does leaving the room count as conscientious objector? Is being a conscientious objector a cop-out? How apatheticly pathetic is it to just not want to get into it with anyone over anything in a new place of work? Maybe I'm just too tired tonight
...sigh...
Posted by: Anne | October 3, 2005 10:55 PM
I'd prefer not to be involved as well but what goes around comes around as they say and he got what he sent around...lol
Posted by: kat | October 3, 2005 11:06 PM
I never talk any shit behind someone's back, that I would never say to their face. That's just a golden rule. I'd much rather someone come to me as an adult, and do the same.. run their mouth to my face - the worst I'll do is get angry for five seconds.. but then again, I almost can't even be mad at anyone who's honest - regardless of whether or not I like what they have to say.
Glad you're finding yourself, and realizing the true colors of those around you. Friggin' kettles. lol
Posted by: momof2 | October 5, 2005 3:21 AM
Right! be honest with me, tell me what you have to say, not others and I wouldn't have to do it back because confronting about gossip the first time didn't work did it? No it didn't! And this person, still talks about me and asks other people what I'm saying about him. Um, nothing until the subject is brought up asswipe...lol
Posted by: kat | October 5, 2005 6:30 AM