My Single Mom Life

Ok, it seems that I'm on a trend here, start posts on a down note and end them on a high note.

If you leave a comment here telling me off, how about using a real email address. You take all that time to tell me what a horrible mother I am cuz oh my gosh! I curse! Then don't even have the balls to leave a working email addy so we can correspond?
What is wrong with you?
These aren't toddlers. These are teenagers who have come home and told me some words I have never even heard of. Do I get mad at them? No.
Why? Because they are just words. They are just words.
Repeat that. They are just words.

I have two amazing sons and no amount of cursing is going to turn them into serial killers ok?
My sons don't smoke, don't drink, don't do drugs, stay out of trouble, get awesome grades in school. My oldest is studying to become a lawyer and my youngest is in advanced studies for the second year in a row but hasn't decided what he wants to be yet.
They are honor roll students.
They help me around the house, they work mowing lawns to earn their own money, they babysit to earn money, they are extremely helpful and charitable.
They both got some Christmas money early last week and after spending what they wanted to on stuff they wanted, they stopped at the Salvation Army's red kettle and tossed in what they had left. Not just change either. They threw in dollar bills and that dearest Mel, is what is important.
My sons rock in so many ways.
You don't know us, you don't know how our household runs, you just read me saying the word fuck and get your nose all bent out of shape.
You tell me and I quote; "I cant beleive you cuss in front of your kids! You really need to learn to be a good and hmmm...mayby mature mom! God You Are So Rude!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
Mayby? Where'd you learn to spell? Mature? Mature is having the balls to go with that attitude of yours honey.
You wanna tell me off and call me immature, grow up and leave a working email addy so I can send you my response and then we can both start being mature.

You don't like all the cursing I do on here, don't read it.
This is my site, I own it, I paid for it, I will say what I want, when I want.

Just because I'm a 35 year old mom doesn't mean I have to wear stretch pants and put my hair in a bun and go to church and be all prissy.
For being the very unconventional mother that I am, I have the most awesome kids around.
All the people who meet them remark on how polite they are and how well behaved they are and guess who taught them those things? Me. All by myself.
I have raised these fine young men by myself and taught them right from wrong and how to be good people and cursing doesn't make you a bad person Mel because they are just words.
Yes they are words that offend some people but that is because people are so uptight and think that words are gonna send them to hell or some shit.
They won't.

Next time you want to tell someone off, use a real email address and be mature about it.
Being mature is not just about words, it's about actions and my actions speak far louder than any words ever could.
Your cowardly actions speak volumes about you.

Ok, now that that is over with, I'm going out tonight with some friends for a Christmas party.
Mark and Sebastian are babysitting 3 kids while we are gone.
They have food and games and plenty of things to do.
They have telephone numbers to call in case of emergencies and I will of course, call to check in every hour like I always do.
We won't be out late at all because it is Christmas weekend and we all have kids to spend time with.
It's a just a get together of friends before we all go our separate ways for the weekend.

Hope you all have a good one.
Later days.