Hellacious.
That describes my day so far.
Wanna hear it?
Of course you do.
I can't go get my pain meds till tomorrow cuz I have no money, so I'm drinking that bottle of sangria I've had in the fridge for a month.
I'm in fucking agony because of all the days to be without pain meds, it has to be fucking raining today.
My joints are killing me.
Got a call from my sister in law.
My ex-husband is now a proud business owner.
Yes! The man who can only pay $22.10 for child support whenever he feels like paying it, is now a business owner.
Makes you all tingly inside doesn't it?
Got a letter from the Big program. It seems Sebastian's Big closed out their case and lied to the Big program, telling them he called Sebastian and explained the whys.
Um, no, no he fucking didn't.
I'm home 24/7, I certainly would have remembered getting a call like that.
Now, after school today, I have the wonderful task of telling my son that his Big is gone because he's getting married, and has a new 7 year old step son to devote his time to.
There's a real man for ya.
I restrained from calling him, but did send a scathing email to the coward.
But the Big program has a new guy waiting, and if Sebastian agrees to try again, this guy will be his. He's 26 years old, wants to be a fireman, loves the outdoors and video games and stuff like that.
But yay for me, I get to tell him his Big was a fucking coward of a man who couldn't even tell a 13 year old, goodbye.
What else can go fucking wrong today?!
Comments
did he buy the tat shop? His myspace I had is gone or changed
Posted by: SHELL | April 10, 2007 1:30 PM
That all sucks. And why did this guy sign on with the Big program, if he wasn't willing to stick with it? That is just scummy to bail out like that!
I remember how George got married, and he had Mark in the wedding. He didn't abandon Mark because he had a new wife, and perhaps might have children of his own one day.
I hope this new guy works out better. That other guy is a coward, you're all probably well rid of him.
I bet the ex-bastard's new business goes belly-up...sounds to me like that guy never did much of anything right in his life. Your boys are what they are because of YOU, and not him.
I hope you feel better soon, and that your talk with Sebastian about his Big goes well. I really hope he will give this new guy a chance, he sounds nice.
Posted by: Christine | April 10, 2007 1:30 PM
That sucks. What a loser to leave a kid hanging like that.
Sorry you ran out of meds. I've done that before and it sucks something awful.
Posted by: Brandi | April 10, 2007 3:16 PM
So the Big is gone. Let's hope Seb decides to give the new guy a try. He sounds nice. :)
Now that the x has a business, won't that make it easier to get child support payments outta him?
Posted by: lattegirl | April 10, 2007 3:25 PM
God Kat, that makes me just bawl. I'm so sorry S has to go through that. It's so hard to pick up the pieces of your child's broken heart.
Posted by: Jules | April 10, 2007 3:55 PM
That's such a shitty, fucked up thing to do. Why bother signing up if you don't intend to stay in the child's life? I hope he takes it well. He really doesn't need someone like that in his life anyway.
Posted by: Belle | April 10, 2007 8:37 PM
I am so sorry Kat about Sebastian's Big. For all it's worth Sebastian will get someone who really wants to be a part of such a cool kid! (Jeff's words by the way:)
As far as the X. I say soak him for all he's worth!!!!!
Posted by: Mindy | April 10, 2007 9:25 PM