Book review and give-a-way!
Trey Ellis is an African-American single father, blogger, and author.
He shared with me a copy of his latest book Bedtime Stories: Adventures in the Land of Single-Fatherhood.
I received it last week, and spent time reading it cover to cover.
What I found was something I wasn't expecting.

Book description from Amazon,
How is a single dad supposed to navigate a new girlfriend into and out of his California king without his son or daughter noticing? For Trey Ellis, steering his way through the unfamiliar nuances of the contemporary dating scene is sometimes a nerve-racking exercise in intra-familial spycraft. But the rewards of being a dad, as any parent knows, easily outweigh any hardships. In a world where African-American fathers are relentlessly portrayed as absent without leave, this irresistible memoir is both a tribute to all those loving, nurturing, black men who are undaunted by the responsibilities of fatherhood and an utterly charming male nonfiction.
Just as the description says, this is a world where African-American fathers are portrayed as absent from their kids lives, going on the Maury show to prove they 'ain't da babies daddy', and running around not caring about the children that are confirmed as theirs, so when I read this work of non-fiction, I was immediately enamored with it.
Trey Ellis is a loving, caring, single father trying to find his way, find a way to pick up the pieces of his life after his wife left, and find someone to love again, all the while being a great dad to his children.
It's an honest memoir, right down to some embarrassing moments that all single parents face. I found myself shocked at how honest he was, but nodding along, even laughing, saying to myself, oh gawd, I've had that happen to me!
The modern dating scene for single parents, is nerve-wracking, and if you do start dating, what about the kids? When do you introduce them, how, should you do it at all? Ack!
Changing diapers, frozen dinners, those moments late at night when it's just you, your thoughts, and a can of pepsi. Those moments when you wonder if you're strong enough to do this and then realize, you have to no matter what.
I thoroughly enjoyed this wonderful memoir, and I know my single parent, and non-single parent readers alike, will love it as well.
That's why I'm having another give-a-way.
If you would like to have this book, all you have to do is leave a comment on this post between now and Sunday February 10th, at 10pm EST.
I will close the comments, and draw a winner on Monday morning.
That's it, no complicated rules, just leave a comment saying you'd like to have it.
Please make sure your email address is valid, and that you can provide a mailing address if you are the winner.
Your information is protected in accordance with my privacy policy.
It's a really great book, honest, heart-warming, real.
Thank you so much Trey for sharing it with me. And now with my readers.
Many wishes for much success.




Comments
Hey I could use this for my kids!
Posted by: Lindsey | February 8, 2008 1:52 PM
I love books, especially non-fiction books!
Posted by: sara | February 8, 2008 1:52 PM
I would like to have this book. :)
Posted by: Kimberly | February 8, 2008 2:41 PM
Oooh, sounds like a good one.
Posted by: Charmed | February 9, 2008 9:20 AM
This sounds awesome! Sign me up please!
Posted by: kylie | February 9, 2008 4:52 PM
as a single dad myself, its nice to see a book out there showing people there are single dads out there. 99% of the information out there is geared specifically for single moms, sometimes we dads feel left out.
Posted by: brian | February 9, 2008 10:15 PM
Hope I am not too late...lol
Posted by: Christie | February 10, 2008 9:58 PM