Lingerie or nude?
That was one of the polls in the S&R forums over the last few days, and you'd be surprised by the numbers.
Most of the men said they only really like lingerie on their wedding night.
They want to see their new wife in her traditional bridal lingerie, but after that, they think the sexiest thing a woman could wear to bed is her own skin.
Now women on the other hand, prefer lingerie, or her man's button down office shirt.
The majority of women did not like to stand naked in front of their man, they all felt like they had too many body flaws to just be all bare and out there.
But then men found bare and out there, to be the most intoxicating and arousing thing about a woman.
So what about you?
Lingerie or nude?
Comments
Never having had the torture of a wedding day/photos and reception plus night, I have no idea.
How come if I don't come see you, you never come see me?
Posted by: Terry | March 5, 2008 4:19 AM
I had a discussion about this same thing with my best friend a few days ago. Lingerie is nice, but I have absolutely no problem walking around completely naked around hubby, and why should I have a problem with it? He married me because he loves me unconditionally. He accepts me no matter what my flaws may be.
My best friend on the other hand refuses to let her man see her in anything less than a baggy t-shirt. Our discussion came down to insecurities. A lot of women are so insecure with their own bodies they're afraid of what their SO's will think as well.
I say if he doesn't like what he sees he doesn't deserve you anyway!
Posted by: Jenn | March 5, 2008 7:10 AM
Nude, for a whole bunch of reasons not the least of which is easy access.
But a lot of men, myself included, find a woman wearing one of our dress shirts (and nothing else) to be sexier than lingerie.
Just a tip... ahem... ;-)
Posted by: Tim | March 5, 2008 11:54 AM
My Husband has always called it "In the way lingerie" Need I say more?
Posted by: Suzy | March 5, 2008 12:53 PM