April 13, 2004

So sue me.

The ex now wants to sue me for slander and libel
He would need to prove that my personal opinions were made with malice in an attempt to harm or defame him.
The 3 posts, (well now 4) that I have written about him, are my personal opinions of my ex husband.
They were never intended to harm or defame him.
This is my personal webspace where I write about my life.
Post #1, I was talking about a letter I received from the state of Maine in regards to him losing his drivers license for failure to pay child support.
This is not slander or libel because it is fact that he does not pay his child support as the letter clearly states.
Post #2 is where I stated an opinion on the recent robbery/theft of something in his band. I stated that it was my gut instinct that it was him. This does not say it was him but says that I think it is him based on information given to me by third parties and my own personal experience of personally knowing him as my ex-spouse and his behaviors as witnessed by me.
And post #3, written last night after receiving falsely spoofed emails from his now current girlfriend, explains to her, in some detail, the facts of my marriage and divorce from him as only I would know them.
He says that his lawyer read my site this morning and that I am indeed breaking the law. He says he wants to sue me.
My response?
Let's roll.
I will be happy to face him in court on this issue and the lack of child support as court ordered in February 1994.

April 12, 2004

Here they come, walking down the street.

Ok ladies and gentlemen, hold onto your hats!
The friends of the ex-bastard have finally found me and have decided to leave anonymous comments in an attempt to tear me down or make me feel bad for posting about him.
Guess what?
I don't fucking care.

April 10, 2004

My ex hubby once supposedly, stole money from his old band.

And they all quit and went their separate ways.
Just a few days ago, someone stole something from the band (new band) again.
I ain't saying nothing because I don't know who did it but I have a gut instinct that it was him.
I mean, the wording in the goodbye message, was just too "smart" for him.

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In a way, I wanted him to do good so he could pay all his child support but knowing he isn't going to make it famous yet again, is kind of nice too.

March 08, 2004

How many years has it been?

It has been 10 years since my divorce from the boys father.
10 years folks.
10 years of fighting to get child support.
10 years of trying to get them to take action on his case.
Well, after 10 years of trying to force him to pay, they took away his drivers license.
Aren't you thrilled?
I know I am.
I mean, what the fucking hell took so long?
10 fucking years State of Maine!
What is your deal?
In the 10 years that they have been piddling around trying to get him to pay and trying to figure out ways to make him pay, this option, of license revocation has always been there. Gov. Angus King put it into play 9 years ago.
How do I know?
Because I was one of 5 moms selected to go to meet him and talk to him about child support enforcement laws.
This was an idea he and I talked about. Taking away licenses for driving, fishing, hunting etc.
They just took it away on March 4, 2004.
The divorce went final on February 2, 1994.
That is 10 years of waiting for them to go after him and make him pay.
10 years of waiting for them to do something.
Do I think this will have an impact on him?
Do I think loss of driving will somehow wake him up and make him pay his child support?
No.
No I don't.
This action, along with any other actions, should have been done years ago.
You can't just let guys like my ex get off scott free for 10 fucking years and suddenly expect them to start paying cuz you took away their license.
No, they will drive anyway or get other people to drive. They have ways around paying in case you didn't notice.

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