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November 27, 2007

It's all true, every last word.

Just for some fun and found on Draven's blog.

Lets101 Quizzes - Fun quizzes for blog & myspace

Kat posted at 05:56 PM on November 27, 2007 || Comments (2) || Link || Horriblescopes

November 26, 2006

Miss me?

The boys and I spent Thanksgiving at my sisters house babysitting the girls so sis and hubby could get away for a few days.
They loved the turkey and cranberry sauce and were so much fun to be around.
But I forgot how tiring toddlers are.
My boys are all grown up now so I must have forgotten all the energy that toddlers have.
I will not ever forget that again.
I'm not complaining, I had a great time with them, I love being around them and having all that fun, but boy oh boy, did they wear me out.
Mark and Sebastian were exhausted too.

In and out of the ball pit, up and down off my lap, I have poop, I need to go potty, I want to brush my teeth, I don't want to go to bed.
Tons of energy.
We took them to the playground and let them play on the slides that oops, were wet, but they didn't care, they had a blast.

They played on the swings and climbed the "castle".

They wanted to go swimming in the pool but it was freezing water. They tried anyway and giggled like crazy touching their toes in the ice cold water.

They played on their own slide and drove their little car around the back porch.

We all had a really good time, the boys playing World of Warcraft while they napped or slept, me zoning out in front of the cable tv.
I don't have cable at my house and I'm actually really glad about that right now.
I spent more time clicking through 98 channels than I did watching any one show. I can't handle that many choices...lol
Sis and hubby came home a day early and we were in our own house last night.

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Then my friend Tina got in touch and asked me to head out with everyone last night because I missed the majority of get togethers during the week.
So we headed out the punk club to meet up with everybody. It was crazy packed in there last night, wall to wall people.
They played great music, people danced, people sweat.
Ewwgie, it was so gross. This one guy had a t-shirt on and a button up shirt over it, and had sweat through both of them. It was nasty. He was so wet, his shirts were glistening. Ick.

I was sitting there, people watching, talking to our group, and this 19 year old girl comes up to cool off in front of the giant fan that was next to me, and grabbed my hair.
Started raving about how pretty it is and then she freaked out.
"You have so much energy! I have to read you!"
She placed her fingers on my palms and started saying all kinds of stuff. I wasn't looking at her, made no eye contact, told her nothing. She couldn't see my face because my hair was in the way.
She said; "You're a mom of 2 kids, both boys, you've been doing it alone for many years. You just had a major surgery not long ago, it was your back! Your back!!! You are so far from spiritual, one could say you have no belief in any gods at all. You should though. You carry the weight of the world on yourself. You're very giving and caring, people take advantage of that. You're very intuitive, people, lots of people come to you for advice, they trust you but you don't trust them. You have very few people you consider friends and you are very careful what you say to anyone, including your friends. You were born in March, you have this same gift I have but you haven't figured that out yet but that's why people come to you, talk to you. They see it in you, they know what you can do. You're the most mature person of everyone you hang around with. Not just because you are older, but because you can see things, you know things, you stay quiet because of that. You don't think people see you for who you are. You are an amazing person, you have gifts, high intelligence, it turns some people away, you tend to frighten people because you see right through them. They don't like being seen for who they are so they stay away from you. You worry about bills and money all the time, but you need to stop that because your day is coming soon. You will be able to stop worrying. Your friends love you for who you are inside and out, they can see you, but you question yourself all the time, you don't have as much faith in yourself as your friends do. Your family is extremely important to you, you would not hesitate to lay down your life for your sons or your sister. She loves you and wants the best for you but comes across hard sometimes. You both are hard and blunt to each other but it's because you love each other so much, you say what you are thinking without hesitating. You need to tune your gift."

Freaky huh?

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Kat posted at 11:38 AM on November 26, 2006 || Comments (7) || Link || Home, family, kids & finances

September 12, 2004

Pisces: Sept 13, 2004 (tomorrow)

Another busy day is on your calendar. Something or someone is still hiding behind the scenes, working mysterious wonders. You find yourself presented with unexpected options and delightful surprises at every turn. When it comes to that certain someone, the matter is far from solved, but you can do better anyway. Just concentrate on going about your business and forget about what others expect from you for the time being. It will all work out without much of an effort from you.

Yay cuz I'm tired man.

Oh yeah, there is school tomorrow for SRQ.

Kat posted at 07:32 PM on September 12, 2004 || Comments (0) || Ping (0) || Link || Horriblescopes

August 16, 2004

Pisces for 8/16.

Underlying agendas seem obvious to you, but your particular slant on things is not shared by others. Facial expressions speak volumes, and those looks you're giving might as well be speeches. Cultivate a neutral countenance and try to keep out of everyone's business. It's always harder to look within, but if you don't do it, who will? You are in touch with yourself enough to know it's time to take your health more seriously. Choose one way to lighten your load and commit to it.

Oh honey, I should have read this hours ago.
I did lighten my load considerably about 33 minutes ago.

Kat posted at 12:36 AM on August 16, 2004 || Comments (0) || Ping (0) || Link || Horriblescopes

June 7, 2004

Pisces June 7, 2004

You have a prime view of the workings of a vast, invisible continuum. You've been to the mountain and watched the gods pull the strings that move human events. For obvious reasons, you won't find a lot of takers for this story. Other people are unlikely to grasp the connections between things that are immediately obvious to you. Consider getting or giving a psychic reading. Maybe you'll make a lucky choice in the office sports pool or scratch off the numbers on a winning lottery ticket. Enjoy!

Kat posted at 05:22 PM on June 7, 2004 || Comments (0) || Ping (0) || Link || Horriblescopes

May 11, 2004

Pisces 5/11/04

Pick up the pieces left behind by others. Make it up as you go, and don't worry about who's following you and what he or she might be thinking. Stray thoughts collide in your own brain, uniting with each other to form what can only be a clue. You may not know everything, but who does? You can still be a knight in shining armor to someone who really needs your help. Simply showing up is enough to make others smile. Entertainment value is just as important as life's more serious commodities. Be happy that you're welcome here.

Kat posted at 12:30 AM on May 11, 2004 || Comments (0) || Ping (0) || Link || Horriblescopes

May 5, 2004

Passion rules your life. Determination gets you out of your chair and into the streets. This time you're going to make certain opportunities work for you. Although your mission requires heightened focus, you're not a single-issue kind of person. Your attention span widens to take in entire new worlds without losing your grip on the one that you currently inhabit. You read other people's minds before they even open their mouths. This can be a little unnerving, but it makes you a lot more efficient. The boring stuff steps cheerfully aside for the things that matter.

Interesting.

Kat posted at 03:08 PM on May 5, 2004 || Comments (0) || Ping (0) || Link || Horriblescopes

April 10, 2004

Do I not already do this?

Pisces for 04/10/04
Pretending that you really don't have strong opinions won't work well for you right now. Whatever you're feeling will inevitably burst forth from your lips. Be sure you say it -- whatever it is -- with conviction, and a great, big smile.

Funny thing is, I really don't have too much to say. I could say some stuff about some stuff but I just don't feel like it.
It's a lazy day.

Kat posted at 10:58 AM on April 10, 2004 || Comments (6) || Ping (0) || Link || Horriblescopes

March 24, 2004

Pisces:

Words are fine, but they say only so much. Talking barely scratches the surface. Let the stars usher you to a place of greater depth and meaning. This is where intuition runs in a straight line, piercing the heart of circular logic. Make your feelings known in a climate where broad sweeps of emotion are permitted and even encouraged. The right people recognize where you're coming from, although they might not be occupying the same zone. They know what you mean and who you are when your smile is your signature and your eyes are the windows to your soul.

Kat posted at 06:07 AM on March 24, 2004 || Comments (8) || Ping (0) || Link || Horriblescopes

March 23, 2004

This shit just cracks me up.

For today, March 23,
Variation is your strong suit. You know your stuff so well that an extemporaneous rant sounds rehearsed. Anything that helps your reputation has to be good.

Bwhahahaha *snort*

Kat posted at 11:52 AM on March 23, 2004 || Comments (0) || Ping (0) || Link || Horriblescopes

March 20, 2004

My horrible scope for today.

You are the sensitive angel in a pit of angry fire today, Kat, so keep your guard up. Try not to be tempted or seduced by the rage around you. Be careful of people who seem to be motivated by fear. You will be much better off when you align yourself with those who act from a point of neutrality and self-confidence. Model your own behavior after the people you see as super heroes in your world.

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Try not to be tempted or seduced by the rage around you. Be careful of people who seem to be motivated by fear.
This is so true.
I find that some people are really afraid of people and or things and I would get all specific and shit but don't feel comfortable doing so.
I do want to say to anyone out there who has any questions at all about my host move. Just to clear this up.
My new host and I were friends before the move.
I am paying for the space.
I am paying a whole shitload less for the space than I was before not because I got a discount for being friends but because the space is actually way cheaper.
And more of it to be honest.
Why not just ask me before you make assumptions?
I have always been honest about this kind of shit.
This new hosting plan is something I can afford and before, it really wasn't. To be honest.
I was scraping by every month just to keep my blog, my outlet, my voice, my ability to connect with people.
Why do I have a blog? Why do I keep my online service?
Because of my situation.
I am housebound. I have no real face to face human interaction with people.
I live alone with 2 kids and no adults to talk to except for my sister who works like 10-12 hours a day.
This is how I stay sane under my circumstances.
Jenni did do the work it took to make it viewable in smaller resolutions like I asked and I try to make it up to her as best I can. I don't have extra cash to send so I sent her a small gift off her wishlist. I get paid from Amazon and had some gift certs at another online store from some surveys that I do.
It's what I can do.
People are making a whole lot of assumptions about the move, still.
Why not ask me before you go and delete me from your blogrolls before getting the whole story?
I was actually pretty hurt when I found out that one person 'dumped' me over this situation.
You don't even know all that happened yet you assume you do.
Try not to be tempted by the rage around you.
That is really hard to do when it is my own rage eating at me.
It is rage because of hurt.

This isn't because of any one conversation or any one email. I have gotten several emails about this shit and have ignored it up until now.
Why gossip?
Why not just email me at mysinglemomlifeATmsn.com and say hey Kat, what the fuck is up with all this shit I have been hearing?
And I will tell you.
I have tried very hard in the 3 years that I have been blogging to be honest with you and I am not going to start lying now.
What would the point of that be?
I just hope this clears up some of the shit that has been getting back to me and if you still have any questions, go ahead and email me.

Sorry if this offends or puts anyones noses out of joint. But I just had to get this off my chest.
This is my blog, my voice, my space.
I don't hide my shit.
Look, dirty laundry flapping in the breeze.
*Sniiiiiff*

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Kat posted at 11:33 AM on March 20, 2004 || Comments (16) || Ping (0) || Link || Horriblescopes